What's Your Grief Podcast

Eleanor's been feeling pretty disconnected this holiday season. Though that might sound better than feeling terrible, it turns out that numbness and disconnection are their own version of unsettling. In this episode, we're tackling this common-but-difficult-to-describe experience in grief - feeling nothing and what to do about it. 

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Direct download: disconnected_holiday.mp3
Category:Holidays and Special Days -- posted at: 11:19am EDT

Relief is one of the more common grief emotions and yet it is one that people often feel ashamed to mention. So today we're talking about relief in grief - what it is, what it isn't, how to understand it, and personal experiences with it. 

About us: Eleanor Haley, MS and Litsa Williams, MA, LCSW-C are the co-founders of What's Your Grief, one of the largest online grief and bereavement support communities. Both are mental health professionals who have lived through significant death and non-death losses. Since late 2012 they have been growing WYG as a resource for grievers who are looking for something beyond the walls of traditional therapy and support groups. 

We don't have ads or a patreon. What helps us most is if you join the WYG member community for grief education, connection, accountability, a grief book club & more.  It is only $10/month and it is a big part of what keeps the podcast going - https://whats-your-grief-community.circle.so/    

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Category:Understanding Grief -- posted at: 2:27pm EDT

This week we were feeling the post-Thanksgiving emotional grief hangover. That means musings on family, holidays past and present, and the ways we grieve the things we assumed would always be part of our lives, but aren't. 

We don't have ads or a patreon. What helps us most is if you join the WYG member community for grief education, connection, accountability, a grief book club & more.  It is only $10/month and it is a big part of what keeps the podcast going - https://whats-your-grief-community.circle.so/    

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Direct download: Holiday_Change.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 9:53am EDT

This week we talk about yet another unexpected aspect of grieving - realizing that we in many ways grieve the past, the present, and the future. This expands on a few things we talked about in the nonfinite grief episode, so make sure you catch that one too. 

We don't have ads or a patreon. What helps us most is if you join the WYG member community for grief education, connection, accountability, a grief book club & more.  It is only $10/month and it is a big part of what keeps the podcast going - https://whats-your-grief-community.circle.so/    

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Direct download: pastpresnt_future.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 5:20pm EDT

This week we're answering a listener question about how to cope when the differences in family grief styles start to cause strain between family members. 

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Category:general -- posted at: 10:46am EDT

In this episode we talk about the little-discussed, but incredibly common experience of nonfinite grief. This is an experience that can happen after a death, but also after countless nondeath losses. 

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Category:general -- posted at: 4:11pm EDT

This week we're discussing when and why grief can leave you with a mountain of ugly, mean, and messy feelings. 

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Category:general -- posted at: 10:59pm EDT

You've sent us your grief questions; we've done our best to share some answers. Or at least talk through some thoughts. How do you handle it when people make assumptions about your grief that are all wrong? How do you strengthen continued bonds? (And some rambling on sleep to boot). 

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Category:general -- posted at: 9:56pm EDT

In this episode, Eleanor and Litsa talk about a question that has created some disagreement on social media recently: do we 'recover' from grief? 

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Category:general -- posted at: 6:42pm EDT

Our book is available for pre-order (and you can even get a free digital download companion thank you here for pre-ordering). Order it today for delivery on the release date - September 27, 2022:

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Category:general -- posted at: 4:38pm EDT

Our book is available for pre-order here (with a free digital workbook download if you pre-order!)

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Direct download: Podcast__The_Weekend.mp3
Category:Coping -- posted at: 11:26am EDT

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Direct download: Podcast__Anger.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 8:19am EDT

Our book is available for pre-order here (with a free digital workbook download if you pre-order!)

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Category:general -- posted at: 11:06am EDT

Needless to say, it's been a while! But we're back with an exciting announcement. 

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Category:general -- posted at: 10:07am EDT

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